tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8023503051242263219.post7991392200767910717..comments2012-04-07T05:06:02.983-07:00Comments on CCC's Journey to Less of Me: My deal breaker? Shallow people!*ccc*http://www.blogger.com/profile/01938403363974512245noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8023503051242263219.post-44103526549860931932007-05-30T00:09:00.000-07:002007-05-30T00:09:00.000-07:00What a total crock of shit. This post has really ...What a total crock of shit. This post has really pissed me off. I am HOPING that marriage, or any relationship is not based on one's appearance. I don't know about the rest of you, but in my vows I promised to hang in there REGARDLESS. There was certainly no fine print about leaving me if I got fat. (or him if he had a car accident and lost his facial attractiveness). Yes, I put on 50lbs (30kgs actually), and you know what? That doesn't make me a bad mother, or a bad wife, or a bad anything. I am still ME. No matter how much I weigh.<BR/>This stupid dick on the radio had failed to realized that we ALL change EVENTUALLY anyway. It's called AGING. Unless she has a magic potion to keep her tiny, skinny, gorgeous and flawless to boot, she is going to have skin hanging off her bones just like the rest of us, regardless of her weight. Is that a 'dealbreaker' too????Siennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14996261651645719451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8023503051242263219.post-30901173230598821342007-05-22T21:52:00.000-07:002007-05-22T21:52:00.000-07:00I feel sorry for the gal who gets that "You're too...I feel sorry for the gal who gets that "You're too fat for me, I"m moving on" conversation. I mean, geesh, we all change with years. We get old. Wrinkly. Lose hair. Get smooshier. Lose teeth. Whatever. Appearances are not stagnant.<BR/><BR/>And diseases can change appearance. What? Is the guy gonna dump someone who suddenly gets cancer and has to have breasts lopped off? <BR/><BR/>Okay, he might say that's not her fault...but I do believe that love is love. If this is a deal-breaker, then maybe he doesn't and never did love her, and it was all about sex or attraction to looks. I dunno.<BR/><BR/>I do know that a woman is better off WITHOUT a man who is going to harp on her weight, than with him. That stress, no one needs. And even if he's been silent, he's been communicating his disapproval. I guarantee it. In body language or other ways.<BR/><BR/>I hope she finds someone who will love completely, like your hubby, like mine. I'm twice the size I was when he married me, and he's never, ever been derisive. And he still tells me I'm sexy and gorgeous. All he worries about now--like I do--is that my blood pressure and sugar numbers are iffy. So..that's why I want to lose weight above all. Not to be unable to enjoy life with him...not cause I'm supposed to be thin. Because I want to be HEALTHY.<BR/><BR/>My darker side hopes the guy in question gets a terribly glandular condition that makes him gain 200 pounds and lose his hair. That might teach him the hard way. :) Oooh, I'm so mean.<BR/><BR/>Princess Dieter aka MirPrincess Dieter aka Mirhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01121450857817115011noreply@blogger.com